Missin'

Missing my running and biking friends. Not as in I wish I could see them. Just miss going running and biking with them. I don't think I will be able to do such for a long time. In some cases never.

Kids, Parenting, and Bears, Oh My!

Anyone who knows us, knows the my weakest link is parenting. We have struggled with that over the last several years. The struggle continues. Like the book of Job suggests and Ecclesiastes suggests there are things God knows that we do not. Maybe it is best to not ask some of the questions. I don't struggle too much with what is God doing in Barbs life or mine. But I do struggle with what He is doing in our kids lives via this accident. My belief in Gods sovereign providence is extends to ALL. This accident is not His accident, but within His sovereign will for Barb and I. But also for our kids and all those around us.

I cannot understand much of what He is doing-but for the kids and parenting them, I understand nothing. Has this been an opportunity for growth that I have failed them? Is it their failure? How does being further handicapped in parenting help? How does Hannah fit into all this? We believe God sent her to us-but are we failing her? We cannot physically parent all these kids like we feel we need to. We certainly see no positive parenting results. We do not see where He is going with this-we sure can't cooperate with where He leads.

I miss

I miss being able to go to be early...

I miss sleeping on the couch when the Mrs. and I fight...

Its the little things ne misses.

Kids-Don't worry

Whenever I worry about the kids, I must keep what Job said (chapter 21) in mind:

²³ One man dies in full vigor, completely secure and at ease,

²⁴ his body well nourished, his bones rich with marrow.

²⁵ Another man dies in bitterness of soul, never having enjoyed anything good.

²⁶ Side by side they lie in the dust, and worms cover them both.

46

Last night, the thought of turning 46 in a few months really got to me. A "past midlife" crisis? Maybe. I do not like how life is flying by before I get a chance to enjoy it. Being on call less than 50% of the time has more appeal than ever.

Results?

I know its hard to know how God is going to do anything. He appears (from Scripture) to be predictable only in that He is not predictable. I have no idea how he plans on using Barbs accident, but as of post 5 months I am pretty (actually VERY) sure that it has not helped our marriage or led to any growth or maturity in the children's lives. Kind of like a video game, both of these areas are weaker than before 7/11. Not destroyed or dead, but weaker than before.

Odd thoughts

Tiger Woods shows that it never ends up good-cheating on your wife. Never.

Lake Travis (the team that beat Flour Bluff in the regional semifinals) finally won state over Longview.

Looking for something Barb and I can enjoy doing together. Anything relating to the house (remodeling, building, decorating) are probably NOT going to do it for us.

Do kids whose parents make good livings ever turn out OK?